Sunday, May 27, 2012

Graham Family Update

 I really haven't really written a good whole family update recently, and there's so much I want to remember and look back on for this time in our life.  So, for journaling purposes, here is what ALL of us are up to these days:




John:


This guy is busy busy, but as wonderful and as big a help as ever.  Work is going well over at Vestas- they just moved to a bigger, remodeled building this week over in the Pearl District and the new building sounds awesome! They now have a gym, showers, a quiet library/study center and his little tax department ended up on the top floor in a great location with glass windows!  It's been a nice change of view for him.  Twice a week John gets into work extra early so he can be home early enough (especially since he has been taking the max again lately) to be there in time for Tball with Jackson.  He is the coach of their cute little Tball team of 11 kids ages 4-7.  They are the Gold team, and Jackson just loves having his dad be the coach.  Luckily lots of the parents have been there at practices to help out and the games have been a blast! It's been really fun to see John in this role... something he's looked forward to since before we even knew we were having a boy.  He is so patient with all the kids and of course his love of sports and coaching really shines through. 


 Besides Tball, John is also still actively involved in his running group and slimming down more and more as they are starting to focus on getting ready for the Hood to Coast Relay race coming up this summer!  This year he gets to be a part of the ward team and is really looking forward to running with them!  One more thing, John recently got called to be in the Young Men's and also a part of the scouting program (I think they said it was called the Varsity Coach Leader or something like that... I'm not that familiar with scouting yet!).  He is very excited about this and has already spent tons of time researching and coming up with a bunch of camping/high adventure trips to do with the boys.  The youth love him too already and are excited to have him!




Steph:


I am also very busy these days!  I am a stay at home mommy that also works lots of hours at home, which is time consuming and very tiring at times, especially while being pregnant! There is no rest for the weary here.  My days consist of running the apartments (which can be A LOT of work at times, but I did manage to get a raise recently for working so hard! yay!), taking the boys to swim lessons and sports practices, looking up new ideas for preschool, teaching preschool and sometimes taking them on field trips, and until recently also was always very involved in the young women's program!  All this on top of trying to grow a healthy baby girl while trying not to throw up and overdo it/ putting myself into premature labor.  It's been tiring, but also very satisfying to be so involved in so many good things!  It was extremely difficult to be released from young women's, especially just two months before most of my laurels graduated, but I know its John's time to be in YM's and my turn to be the supportive spouse at home while he's off at mutual and camp trips and preparing lessons.  The Sunday I was released was extremely emotional for me and the girls.... we've spent so much time together and I truly have come to love all of them! It's really difficult to just have to let go then and there.... no 2 week notice or anything, but I do plan on still participating in some of their graduation activities! I am also excited because they put me in the primary in Jackson's class! I love primary and singing the songs and getting to see what my boys are up to and learning about each Sunday.  I am really excited to be in there!! 




Mr. Action Jackson:


This kid is getting so smart and so big!! He is still as sweet as ever, always complimenting others and is such a great friend.  He LOVES to help out at home with everything.  We recently made some super cute chore charts where the boys flip over the picture after they do the chore and get to add some beans into a jar for every chore completed.  Once we fill the jar as a family we will do something fun like get some ice cream or bowling, etc.  Jackson has taken this in full stride.  He wakes up excited to get his chores done... no joke! He's always asking what more he can do.


Jackson is still as ever into sports and it's been so much fun to watch him and support him.  He is in the big kid swim class (some of the other kids are 3-5 years older than he is!) and continues to be a little fish in the water.  He is mastering all the different strokes and loves working on his diving in the deep end.  Tball has been really exciting for him as well.... it's the first time he's been on a team for any sport and he has really loved making new friends and wearing his uniform.  He wears his team hat just about everyday, loves his games, and usually hits a big hit out to the outfield with the coach (aka John/Daddy) pitching- so no Tee needed for him!


Jackson also loves to draw.  He is really good at it too! He definitely gets that from his Dad.  He spends most of his free time drawing star wars characters and ships.  He has also been working really hard in preschool, writes his first and last name like a pro, love counting past one hundred and doing addition problems, and recently memorized our address as well as our phone number! He is one kid that really gets the whole "you can achieve anything you set your mind too".  With both whistling and snapping his fingers he really wanted to learn how, so I told him how and said it takes a lot of practice too.  So, in true Jackson form, he practiced and practiced over and over until now he can snap and whistle no problem! And he is so proud of himself!  I love seeing him accomplish things on his own!!




Mr. Bear:


Baron is also getting super smart and so big.  I wish sometimes he would slow down!! He has learned how to spell his name verbally, can recognize all the letters in his name and just recently mastered writing B, A and O and is pretty close to getting the R and N down too for his name!! I'm so proud of him! He loves participating in preschool with us and loves trying to be just like the big kids.  He has been getting more into drawing lately too and I love to see his huge headed stick figures. :)  One more thing, he also now knows my phone number by heart... Jackson decided after he mastered it to teach it to Baron, and sure enough, Baron got it down and will tell it to me all the time! I was shocked he actually got it down so fast!


This kid is also very coordinated like his brother, and also has a lot of natural strength.... He is amazing when it comes to jungle gyms and hanging on the monkey bars.... he can hang on forever! And you teach him how to do a sport once and he goes out and does it like a pro.  It's a lot of fun to watch.  He just gets it.  The other day we were at the park and let the boys hit off the Tee, and Baron was a natural! It was great! He also really enjoys soccer... John built them a little goal out of PVC pipes and he loves scoring goals. John came home from his morning running club the other day to the boys having a full on soccer match in our hallway at 6:45am.  Baron is also getting really into swimming.  He had his first official swim lessons this last month and just loved them.  His favorite is doing "steamboats" from the wall out to someone going a good 10-15 feet out.  He also loves floating on his back and jumping way out into the water off the wall by himself.  


Bear is still a little sweetheart and also has the cutest humor.  Him and John have the best staring contests all the time in which they both furrow their brows further and further and Bear can keep that straight face forever! He is always making us laugh.  He loves to be tickled and chased and is always making funny faces. He is daddy's buddy through and through.  He always has to be sitting by him, on his lap or on his shoulders and even sometimes accidentally calls me Daddy when Dad's at work.  It's pretty cute.




Baby Mo:


This little girl so far is looking like she will have no problem keeping up with her brothers.  She is a non-stop mover.... meaning I get just about no sleep.  John and I will lay in bed and just watch my belly do the wave over and over.  She is crazy active, just like Jackson was while in me.  We are thinking she just might have his big feet as well.  It will be so much fun to see in about 5-7 weeks!! I am SO ready to be done being pregnant, and even more excited to finally just get to have her here safely in my arms. I have recently begun nesting like crazy and taking on all kinds of cleaning, reorganizing projects. I love it.  I definitely have my own mother's love for a clean and organized home!  The boys are also greatly looking forward to the baby finally being here and love to feel her kick.  It makes them laugh so hard and immediately start planning out the star wars games they can play with her.  It makes me so happy.   We all just CANNOT WAIT for July!!






That's about it for now! Enjoy some recent pictures I found on the camera!









Is there anything cuter than a little boy in a baseball hat??




One day for preschool field trip we took the boys to this really pretty duck pond area behind the Hillsboro library.  They had made milk carton boats and wanted to go sail them, and also feed the ducks of course. It was a beautiful and very fun day!

  I think that Goose behind Jackson tried to take his bread shortly after I took this picture... they were agrgessive!


 Cute little baby Ducks









 My cute little Tballer

 Catcher

 Here's my recently returned campers from their Father's and Sons Campout... they had SO much fun and were talking about it for days!


 And here's Baron working on writing his letters!






Sunday, May 13, 2012

Happy Mom's Day!!

I have THE worst pregnancy brain ever lately.  I brought down a present for my mother for Mother's Day when I was down there last week and brought the card the boy's drew for Grammie, but totally spaced it on my card for her.  I also totally spaced sending my mother-in-law her Mother's Day card/gift in time as well.  Let's just say it hasn't even gone in the mail yet even though Mother's Day is TODAY.  I am awesome.  Sheesh.  I really do want the two of them to know how much we love and appreciate them though, so a blog post will have to do for now.  






Dear Mom, 


You are the best mom a girl could ask for! I had such a wonderful time with you last week at Time Out for Women and with all the shopping trips and fun chats! You know what is so great about you?  You still have that protective mother instinct over me even though I've been married close to 7 years and have 2.5 kids.  I can tell because you still make sure my needs are met by doing things like always having food (with plenty of protein for this hyploglacemic girl) packed and ready for me the second you pick me up from the airport... it's always exactly what I need!  And I can tell you still care by the fact that you still make me my favorite breakfast of french toast when I visit, make sure I get a stop in to In'n'out ASAP once I'm there because you know how much I love and miss it, and you always have a good book and pack of wintergreen lifesavers waiting for me in my room.  You still know me so well.  I also love that I can count on a few good shopping trips and of course frozen yogurt runs when I'm with you... I don't even have to ask... we always just "somehow" end up there.  


You love my kids and remember what they each like and don't like, and make sure they know how much their Grammie loves them! Most importantly, you still are always there for me.  Whether I need to vent, cry, share excitement or joy, think something through out loud, or just chat with someone, you are still the first person I turn to (after John of course).  I can always count on you to just listen and then give me the advice I need, or just express your love and support, which makes all the difference. 


You are a wonderful example of compassion, service, unconditional love, and mothering that never ends!  Thanks for being my mom!  WE LOVE YOU!!!  Happy Mother's Day!!


Love always, 


Steph and the boys






Dear Sue, 




I can't even tell you how much I have been blessed to gain you as yet another loving mom in my life! You have accepted me openly into your family, faults and all and have shown me and my boys so much love and support!  I love that every time we visit you go out of your way to make sure we are taken care of, make sure we get to have lots of fun, but also have time to relax, and make certain we are very well fed and spoiled! You work so hard to show us how much you care and we always notice and appreciate all you do!  I love that my boy's have their own cups and placemats at your home and that you buy them their favorite yogurt drinks and treats that their own mom never buys. Plus you take them swimming and support them in their hobbies and dreams and that makes them oh so happy to know how much Grandma cares about the things they love!  You also have let me know how proud you are of all the work I do to keep our home together and it makes me feel so special and validated. 


Most importantly, you raised (and still at times are raising) one of the most patient, hard working and honest guys I have ever known and we are blessed every day to have him in our life.  Thank you for all that you taught him and are continuing to teach us.  We love you tons!! Happy Mother's Day!!


Love always, 


Steph and the boys






Hope everyone has a wonderful day today!! I know I have already been so spoiled by my boys!

Love That Guy...

I have the best husband ever.  That last post meant more to me than he will know.  To be appreciated for all we do is probably one of the best gifts a mom/busy wife can receive.  And I love being a mom and wife to my boys.  They are awesome and bring me so much joy each and everyday.  It is a pleasure being able to serve them and try my best to do all I can to make their lives better!  Love you boys!!

p.s.  You're not so bad looking yourself hun =)

Sunday, May 6, 2012

A little note from the boys club.

     I'm a stubborn guy.  I'll be the first to admit it.  I like to think that when my lovely wife heads out on a much needed, and significantly anticipated, girls weekend to Time-Out for Women that I can handle myself.  To a degree I am right.  Steph gets in tomorrow afternoon and if you tally up the score I did well: no ER trips... yet..., our home has not caught on fire... yet..., the boys didn't stage a coupe... I think ( I haven't heard them for awhile), and despite my overuse of ... I haven't lost my mind.  So for the most important things, I think I nailed it!  But really,  when it comes down to life as a single dad, I think I'll pass.  I think the boys would too.  They miss their mother and I miss my wife.
     As we took a nice little stroll through the grocery store tonight at 10:30 (2.5 hours past Jackson & Baron's bedtime) with me trying, & failing, to make the emergency grocery run seem like a planned "lets stay up late boys club excursion" I realized, Steph does a way better job of planning than I do.  Later as I unpacked the grocery bags I realized that although some tasty treats did end up making their way into our cart we missed some vital nutrients along the way.  Steph also does a way better job of executing than I do.  
       Back to planning.  My nemesis.  Nemesis might be a little strong, it's more of a bad weakness.  I'm just not that good at planning more than a few hours out, a day max, maybe a week if you want to push it, but then things go downhill because my plans aren't accurate, and I'm not that good a changing on the fly, it's that stubborn thing coming back, queue the run-on sentence, dang it (Steph's also my editor because grammar makes my brain turn into mush).  My subpar planning skills were on display late last night when I realized that an Apostle of the Lord was speaking in two separate adult sessions of stake conference THIS evening (this was not a surprise visit, we've known for some time it was happening), neither of which I had a sitter for.  Excellent, nay, full on Awesome.  Fortunately for me we have some friends that were also attending who had the foresight to actually get a babysitter.  They let me piggyback the boys on their sitter.  Thanks Brittany and Jonny, I owe you some cookies.  Crisis averted.  But seriously, Steph would have had that lined up weeks in advance. Fail job.
     Speaking of crisis, managing apartments (Steph's job for which I attempted to fill in for while she was gone) should be called "managing crisis".  It's a little ridiculous.  I learned that Steph has picked up the knack of handling high stress situations like a flight control operator.  I wouldn't be surprised if she actually could guide in two 747's and an airbus in snowy conditions.  These are some of my notes/feelings for our tenants just from the time Steph was out: To the people down the way with the "broken kitchen" that they want fixed this instant.  You're awesome, and I can't fix a "broken kitchen".  Sorry.  So pull the reigns on your attack dog son and tell him not to try to barge into my home again.  To the other apartment complex that calls twenty times to get our fax number, take it easy, you're going to be alright, and the more fired-up you get on your messages the less likely I am to be speedy in getting back to you.  To the lady that calls and says "yeah, I just have that thing with my place, hope to hear from you soon!", I have no idea what "that thing" is, it could be a rabid R.O.U.S. for all I know, (I've seen some messed up stuff managing apartments and I'm not too pumped about seeing what you did to your toilet while you partied last night).  To the cleaning guy, there's a magical box in the corner called a fax machine, we'll send you a purchase order on monday, you're not going to be collecting your cash until next week anyway and I don't think your company has to report their earnings to the SEC so i think a day later is going to be aok.  Now I know why Steph feels like venting all the time.  You earned it Honey, vent on.
     That's the short list.  I could go on and on, and Steph has only been gone since Thursday morning!   I didn't even get to the debacle at omsi, the messed up stir fry (how is that possible?), the sugar highs, and then the spectacular sugar burnout lows, Jackson somehow sneaking in a ridiculous amount of wii time while I was "managing crisis", & Baron weeping over swedish fish (he wanted gummy worms, then he polished off all the swedish fish.  It wasn't a small bag).  All stories worthy of mention, but I need to wrap this up because it's late, and  I need to be up early to try to fit some cleaning in before church tomorrow (how does she do it?). 
     Needless to say we've always loved & appreciated Steph and all of her hard work, but after this weekend our appreciation has risen to a new level.  Her patience, skills, planning, diligence, devotion, love, and work ethic are all exemplary and I only hope that we can be a little more like her.  She deserves a lot more credit than she gets.

     Honey, we miss you, we love you, and we're so happy you're a part of our family.  We can't wait to be with you again.  You make our lives so much better.  Plus you're pretty.  

Love,
John & The Boys Club